Ok, this weekend sucked. My power box blew up and I had no power all weekend. It just sucked. The neighbors brought over a flashlight and tonight have invited me for dinner. So it is looking up.
I need help. Your help. How do you know if someone asked you out on a date? I mean if they said "Would you like to go on a date?" Even someone as out of the loop as me could understand that.
What if they said "Would you like to go to dinner?" Is that a date invitation? or a hey I'm being nice to the old single lady next door to me? kind of thing. What if they said "Would you like to come over for a drink?" What does that mean? Are these datey kind of things? How does one know?
I really need some advice on this. Do I get dressed up? Arg! this is hard. Plus, he is really a nice guy and I don't want to do something wrong and end up looking like a serious deranged loon. Do you think I should look for a book? a class? a Ouija board?
Someone, anyone please direct me.
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I just had to comment on this....how about just taking him for what he said and go along for the dinner and companionship with no expectations? Who knows where it could lead, but for one evening you will most likely be having a really nice experience.
ReplyDeleteGood luck and let us know how it goes.
I do think that for fear of being rejected, many men are very indirect about their dating requests.